Saturday, October 31, 2009

what is a military wife?

awhile back... i got this email from a dear, fellow military wife. it made me laugh & cry all at the same time. i knew i wanted to make a layout about it! :) so, here is the email, followed by the layout:

What is a MILITARY Wife?
They may look different and each is wonderfully unique, but this what they have in common.

Lots of moving...



Moving far from home...

Moving two cars, three kids and one dog... all riding with HER of course.

Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house.

Moving curtains that won't fit.

Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.

Moving away from friends, moving toward new friends.

Moving her most important luggage; her trunk full of memories.

Often waiting-

Waiting, waiting, waiting for housing; waiting for orders;

Waiting for deployment; waiting for reunion; waiting for phones calls;

Waiting for the new curtains to arrive; waiting for him to come

home for dinner... AGAIN!

They call her "military dependent", but she knows better.

She can balance a checkbook.

Handle the yard work..

Fix a noisy toilet.

She is intimately familiar with drywall anchors and toggle bolts.

She can file the taxes, sell a house, buy a car, or set up a move... all with ONE Power of Attorney.

She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.

Reinvents her career with every PCS; locates a house in the desert,the arctic, or the deep south and learns to call them all 'home'.

She MAKES them all home.

She is fiercely IN-dependent.

Military Wives are somewhat hasty.

They leap into decorating, leadership, volunteering, career

alternatives, churches and friendships.

They don't have 15 years to get to know people.

Their roots are short but flexible.

They plant annuals for themselves and Perennials for those who come after them.

Military Wives quickly learn to value each other.

They connect over coffee, rely on the spouse-network and accept offers of friendship and favors and record addresses in pencil.

Military Wives have a common bond.

The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands his
commitment is unique.. He doesn't have a job, he has a 'mission' he can't just decide to quit he's on-call for his country 24/7

His language is foreign:



And so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.

She is the long-distance link to keep them informed, the glue that holds them together.

Military Wife has her moments----

She wants to wring his neck, dye his uniform pink, and refuse to move to
Siberia .

But she pulls herself together.

Give her a few days, a travel brochure, a long hot bath, a pledge to the flag
, and a wedding picture.

And she goes.

She packs.

She moves.

She follows.


What for?

How come?

You may think it is because she has lost her mind.

But actually it is because she has lost her heart.

It was stolen from her by a man...

Who puts duty first.

Who longs to deploy.
Who salutes the flag..

And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military husband,

She will remain his Military wife.


  1. Oh how I love this page! Mind if I scraplift? :)

  2. scraplift away, hallie, my dear!